Haar, you would not believe some of the stuff I've had thrown at us over the years. My Mam was in labour for 36 hours with me. We arrived with both fists clenched on their respective side of face. I'm led to believe as a result of this some oxygen starvation, bleed on the brain, then stroke.
As if you would deliberately choose a life complicated by said 33% brain injury and cerebral palsy eh!! A lot of my so called friends don't have a clue about our daily struggle. Always feel as though because they don't see aforementioned battle it just doesn't exist in their eyes and I'm milking the situation.